About

Founded in 2018 by Ed Van Buskirk, If U Love Me is a nonprofit organization focused on restoring the truth and wisdom of God’s Ten Commandments in our world of confusion.

Our organization is guided by Jesus’ instructions to the twelve apostles at The Last Supper, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments” (John 14:15).

We offer Catholic-based, insightful, and easy-to-use resources for schools and families, parish groups, and individuals that provide insights into the love and wisdom of God. Groups of every size will find these resources both practical and spiritual.

Visit our programs page to find the best resources for you.

The mission of If U Love Me is to restore God’s truth and the timeless wisdom of His Ten Commandments in our world of confusion.

Our vision is for God to be the center and purpose of families, communities, and all of society.

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Meet Our Founder

Ed Van Buskirk has a corporate background in consulting and IT software. He founded If U Love Me in 2018 after a life-changing men’s retreat challenged him to reflect on his awareness and understanding of the Ten Commandments.

After prayerful reflection, Ed realized that the Ten Commandments are a wealth of wisdom given to us by a Loving God who only and always wants the very best for us. Following God’s call, he founded If U Love Me so others, who may have missed the greatness of the Commandments, could rediscover them, and the God who wrote them by His very hand, in a new light.

In his talks at parishes, retreats, and conferences Ed brings the Commandments to life through teachings and stories that demonstrate the joy and freedom of the Commandments.

“Every day, as I explore something new about God and His Commandments,” said Ed, “I discover even more of the richness of the Ten Commandments and how they are refreshing in their simplicity and amazing in their completeness for living a joy-filled life.”

Ed provides inspiring and engaging presentations for conferences, retreats, and parish missions, business lunches and more. Offer a unique presentation that no one is talking about, yet is the solution to the real challenges our world faces, by scheduling Ed for your next event.

Board of Directors

Ed Van Buskirk

Founder, Executive Director

Jim Kafka

Board Member

Aaron Swanner

Board Member

David Mehrer

Board Member

Staff

Barb Van Buskirk

Board Advisor

June Van Buskirk

Board Advisor

Most Reverend James V. Johnston Jr., bishop of Kansas City-St. Joseph approved If U Love Me programs for parish and family catechesis.

His official letter states, “If U Love Me presents the Ten Commandments in an engaging way that helps both adults and children see the commandments are ultimately given by God to help us love in different ways.”

Our Programs

If U Love Me has programs on the Ten Commandments designed for parishes, schools, families and personal study. These programs are filled with reflections, meditations and enrichment to support you in your spiritual journey.

No matter your needs or budget, we invite you to pray and meditate on the truth and wisdom that God offers you for a full, joy-filled and happy life here on earth and in the next.

Visit our programs page to find the best resources for you.

God’s Recipe for a Wonderful Life is now on the Catholic Radio Network! Tune in each Sunday to hear how the Commandments are God’s solution to the chaos & confusion of our world!